Comments on: Beauty In Tragedy

By: swagata

swagata — Tue, 19 Mar 2019 02:56:16 +0000

The sign of a positive and strong individual is that they try to find some positivity and hope even in disaster. I also agree with you that every set back teaches us a lesson, every difficult and painful experience makes us a better person! Thanks for sharing such a personal story with your readers to help inspire them!

By: Mayuri Patel

Mayuri Patel — Tue, 19 Mar 2019 02:01:59 +0000

I cannot say that I understand how you feel and what you went through as fortunately I’ve not faced a death of relative or friend because of suicide. However, you’re such a strong person and seeking solace from friends and husband in these trying times takes courage. Life is definitely so precious and its tragedies that make us realize that.

By: Johnny Quid

Johnny Quid — Mon, 18 Mar 2019 22:52:11 +0000

Excellent post, and so true. If we didn’t have the hard times, we’d never really be able to enjoy the really good times. In times of grief, our inner strength is tested and we have to hold tight to it in order to see the good that often comes of it. My condolences are definitely with you. Your friend sounds like the kind of person that you never forget. I recently lost a long time friend to brain cancer last month, and not a day goes by that I don’t think about him. But you’re right…he’s not really gone. He’s very much a part of me, always will. When I think about it that way, and how he’s no longer suffering and is now experiencing more joy than my human mind can even fathom, I get a true sense of joy. I pray that you feel that same joy every time you think of your friend and how they’re always with you.

By: Luna S

Luna S — Mon, 18 Mar 2019 15:32:34 +0000

The pain of losing someone is so deep and so strong sometimes you feel as though you’ll never recover and some people might not. I am sorry for your loss but I am glad everything has become better from that hard point and that things are looking brighter, thank you for sharing this with us.

By: Live Learn Better

Live Learn Better — Mon, 18 Mar 2019 14:58:18 +0000

I can’t claim to know how this feels first hand because I have not experienced such. my heart goes out to you for your loss. I am always consoled by my faith that If I have lost anything, God is the reason why I didn’t lose everything.
May you find peace and comfort always.

By: Nina Nichols

Nina Nichols — Mon, 18 Mar 2019 13:13:28 +0000

You’re absolutely right. Sometimes, it’s all in the mindset. Turning something negative into positive. Not everyone has the same perspective but I always believe that there’s beauty in tragedy. Sometimes it takes time to comprehend what’s truly happening but time heals all wounds and understanding will dawn on you soon.

By: The Prepping Wife

The Prepping Wife — Sun, 17 Mar 2019 23:40:09 +0000

In reply to Debra Roberts. You may benefit from reading the post I wrote about narcissistic people, Debra. I don't know if that is the case in your family, but it was mine. So many people judged that too. Like there was something wrong with me for cutting them off, acting like I was just heartless and had no soul. I definitely felt the guilt as well, wondering if I really had made good decisions. Time told me I had, because my life drastically improved, and I can't ignore that. You and I have very similar stories, and I am so glad you had your husband and friends to help you too. I don't know where I would be without mine. If you ever need any extra support, I'm right here.

By: Natalie

Natalie — Sun, 17 Mar 2019 22:13:03 +0000

I am grateful for hardship, but never wish for it. My thought is, if I learn what I need to the first time I won’t have to experience that again. I don’t know if it’s true, but I’ve been able to make major improvements in my life because I’m looking to progress.

By: Sandra Riguzzi

Sandra Riguzzi — Sun, 17 Mar 2019 22:02:15 +0000

This was beautiful! I lost my nephew to suicide this past November, and many of my family members can’t say it out loud. I was amazed at the number of people who disappointed me with their reaction or should I say “lack of.” People don’t know what to say or how to handle it and I have tried to be understanding of that, but it is difficult. Your best friend left you a wonderful gift – a legacy of a better life for you. He will always be a part of your life because as your life continues to move forward and flourish, you can look up at him and say thank you, and he will be smiling down at you being so proud. God Bless

By: Debra Roberts

Debra Roberts — Sun, 17 Mar 2019 21:27:48 +0000

Beauty in Every Tragedy. I’m going to use that…I like it. Having cut ties 5 years ago with my dysfunctional and toxic family, I shed some tears daily about missing them and whether I made the best decision. I know that my life is much more peaceful without them in it, but the guilt most days is overpowering when I see that my kids can still have healthy relationships with the toxic individuals…I don’t see how and I often feel betrayed (it’s my mother and sister who are the toxic ones). Through yoga and my strong friends and husband, I am able to seek some much needed solace, but the pain is still there and I feel it always will be.