7 Simple Ways to Thank Your Husband Daily
You should be thanking your husband every single day. He should be thanking you too, but I’m here to focus on you right now.
Saying thank you is a way to show both gratitude and kindness. The world needs a lot more of that in general! But we can all start at home, with thanking our husbands.
7 simple ways to thank your husband daily will result in a couple of amazing things. One, you’ll start noticing more of the wonderful little things he does everyday. I think that is essential for the survival of any marriage. Two, you’ll find that voicing your gratitude is often reciprocated.
When you strive to be the best wife, you’ll get the best husband in return, because you’re setting the example and showing him how much you love and respect him. He knows how amazing that feels and will want to give you the same thing in return.
Here are my favorite 7 simple ways to thank your husband daily.
Send Him a Thoughtful Text
Remember when you first started dating and you’d text each other all the time? Get back into that! Instead of asking him to do something like stop by the store on the way home or to start dinner, send a surprise text.
- I’m grateful for you.
- I’m thinking about you!
- Thank you for taking out the trash this morning.
- Thanks for being an amazing husband.
- You’re the best.
When was the last time you sent your husband a text like that? If you can’t remember, there’s no better time than now to send one!
Write Him a Note
Go old school with pen and paper. Texting is great, don’t get me wrong. It’s how I tend to do things more often than not. But there is something seriously amazing about a handwritten love note.
Write your gratitude down on a sticky note and put it somewhere as a nice surprise. Or simply say, I love you.
You can put it in his vehicle, on the refrigerator, mirror, in his wallet, or on his pillow. Little reminders that you love him and are grateful for him make a huge impact and show him that he’s loved and a priority in your life.
Turn Dinner Into a Date Night
I love date nights with my husband. They are so much fun, because I love how excited Nathan gets about taking me out and spending time with me.
But here is the amazing thing. You don’t have to go out to turn a simple bland boring night at home into a full date night. If you have kids, put them to bed. Then do everything just like you would on a date night.
Dress up, put some effort into your hair and makeup. Light candles, use the good plates and sit at the table and not the couch, and drink from wine glasses. No tv, no phones, no interruptions. Just you, your husband, amazing food, and some quality conversation. Then cuddle together while you watch a favorite movie.
It is such a fun and amazing way to surprise your husband!
Write “Thank You” on the Mirror in Lipstick
This is a great way to surprise your husband. I highly doubt he’ll be expecting this.
You can also find other ways to really get creative in how you say thank you. This will add to the wow factor and can make it more meaningful to do something outside the normal and boring.
Tell Him You’re Grateful
Sometimes the words “thank you” can become a bit boring and monotonous. We say thank you to be polite often, like when someone holds the door for us, or when someone says bless you because you sneezed. It’s an automatic habit to say thank you to certain things, right? So the actual meaning and impact of those words are often lost.
Try saying “I’m grateful for you” instead, because it is different. That can show a lot more intention and have a bigger impact than simply saying thank you.
Have a Conversation
I talk to my husband every single day, as I’m sure you do too. But the problem is, when was the last time you had a real conversation? One that didn’t revolve around mundane daily stuff like kids, dinner, bills, or errands needing done. It is way too easy to fall into that trap, because life happens.
One of the best ways we can show gratitude is simply to listen. Remember when you were dating and you would hang on every word that he said? Let’s get back to that!
Find Each Other’s Love Language and Use It
If you don’t know your husband’s love language, you need to learn it! Seriously. This can absolutely make or break a marriage.
We all have our own love language, and if you don’t know what your husband’s is, it is literally like speaking a different language. This doesn’t mean you don’t love your husband, it means you aren’t loving him the right way. Because your love language and his may not be the same. That is why knowing each other’s love language is essential.
Once you do know his love language, use it, and use it every day. This is one of the ways I strive to be the best wife everyday.
7 Simple Ways to Thank Your Husband Daily Notes
One of the things I love about this list is that they’re all really easy to do! It takes such a minimal amount of effort on your part, yet can have an absolutely amazing impact on your marriage and your husband.
Showing gratitude and saying thank you simply feels good to do! I always want to make my husband feel like he’s the best, because he is. Lifting him up and making him feel good is important to me.
7 Simple Ways to Thank Your Husband Daily Discussion
Do you say thank you to your husband daily? Has this list given you new ideas and ways to say thank you and express gratitude? Let me know your thoughts in the comments!